A Relationship is not Marriage.
1) Be Wary of Joint account during courtship.
You people will soon be, but you’re not yet married, be patient.
You’re even buying properties in each others name, Mr and Mrs Smith. I laugh in french.
Wisdom is Profitable to Direct. Why not just wait till it is official?
We don’t wish you evil, but anything can happen.
It’ll shock you how the Money in the joint account and all others will lead you both to court if a break up happens.
2) Sewing to match, and co, posting each others picture and peppering social media with your loved up couple pics consistently and incessantly.
When it comes to relationship, I usually advise that you keep things a bit secret and tuned down till few weeks to your wedding.
It’s better you surprise people, than the other way round.
You’re in a Relationship, and you won’t let social media rest.
You are in a relationship, but you are peppering married people (your senior colleagues).. See levels.
Hmmmmmm
That relationship better not break oh.. Because.
3) Supplying Husband privileges to a Boyfriend
My Dear Sister
You cook, you sweep, you clean, you wash, you add your body on top.
Bride Price he hasn’t paid.
Your parents he has refused to meet.
Why then exactly should he pay your Bride price if you’re already doing everything for him?
Sex Is reserved for Marriage, not Courtship, .. Except you’re not a child of God..
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And I advise Brothers,
Before you decide to send a lady to school so she can come and marry you after she graduates, marry her first.
Before you pay her school fees, Pay Her bride price and wed her.. From your house, she can be going to the school.
To avoid tales by moonlight later on.
Courtship is a Time to Get to know each other better, not a time to play Married.
