It is called a RELATIONSHIP, not an OCCUPATION,
Relationship is not a Hustle.
You know you don’t owe a Man your BODY in a Relationship until he marries you, in the same vain, no Man OWES you his WALLET until you are married to him.
To avoid all this plenty talk and see finish,
1) Get a Job as a Lady.
Earn something, no matter how little and be able to take care of your immediate needs.
Seek basic financial independence.
2) As a Lady in a Relationship, no matter how little, buy gifts for the Young Man, even if it is N500 tie or t-shirt, or a sandal.
Once in a while, take him out.. Even if it is Malt N250 and Meatpie N400, or N100 airtime,
If you don’t have a Job yet, SAVE FROM the money he gives you, and use it to get something for him. That’s Wisdom..
Prove to him that you don’t only know how to RECEIVE, you can also GIVE.. Earn your self respect.
3) STOP demanding Money from him as if he is an ATM.
Sometimes let him see you trying to solve your financial challenges without involving him
While in a Relationship, use sense to ask money from your Man. (even in marriage)
(If you’re giving him sex,, that means what you’re doing is now a Transactionship, not a Relationship, sex for money. God have mercy on you both.)
4) Trash the idea of “His Money is OUR Money, My Money is MY Money”
You work, and you use your own salary for ONLY yourself, or you are saving your own salary, and expecting him to spend his own to take care of you both.
You are wicked and selfish.
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A RELATIONSHIP is not a SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP (for the Man alone) but a COLLABORATIONSHIP.
