Many Singles especially ladies, whose relationships ended in broken hearts, when asked what the man proposed to her which made her agree to be with him, the response is mostly “He said he was interested in me or wanted to be with me or likes me so we should date.”
If you are single and a lady especially, you need to pay attention to the words of the man who wants to be with you. The fact that someone likes you does not mean they love you.
The fact that they are interested in you does not mean they want to stay with you. The fact that they want to date you does not mean they want to marry you.
So, stop accepting proposals you don’t really understand. It’s your responsibility to know what a man wants from you before you accept to be in a relationship with him.
Many guys are looking for sex mates and nothing more whilst some are looking for a life partner. A man who wants you as a life partner or wife will do anything to be with you or to keep you with him.
“No sex before marriage” won’t drive that man away, misunderstanding will not push him away. Its unfortunate many ladies mistake a guy who is looking for sex for the one looking for marriage.
Don’t use sex or pregnancy as a bid to get marriage. One of the worst mistakes of singles is to trust the wrong person as a life partner. Once you do, you ignore all the red flags.
If you have made such mistakes already, learn from the situation or relationship. As painful or painless as such lessons might be, they are priceless. Let such a lesson change you for the better.
In conclusion, “Being excited about something is not enough. You must also know what you are doing. Don’t rush into something, or you might do it wrong” – Proverbs 19:2
