- Avoid talking tough to him. Don’t make him feel you are out to compete with him
- Don’t speak harsh at him and justify you do so because you are angry. In your anger, do not damage
- Give him room and time to talk. Don’t dominate the conversations. Dialogue, not monologue
- Be consistent. Don’t be the woman who speaks great things to him and the same who insults him. Your insults will cancel all the good you have spoken to him in the past
- Check your tone. You might be saying the right thing but with the wrong tone. Sometimes your message is not well received because of your delivery
- Don’t give silent treatment, it pushes him away
- Don’t make demands or give instructions as if you are his boss, he will switch off.
- Maintain warmth in your conversations, it makes him stay in the talk
- Talk with him things that stimulate his mind, that makes him learn; it makes him excited to talk to you. Mature talk, not drama
- Never make a conversation be about praising another man whilst demeaning him; be it your ex, your father, your pastor, a celebrity or friend.
Leave a comment
Leave a comment