Dating is not a favour…
Engagement is not ownership..
Marriage is not Slavery…
When you’re dating someone, don’t see it as a favour rather it should be a mutual feeling, respect and understanding.
Why relationship?
To know weakness and strength.
To test compatibility..
To build friendship..
To bring out the best in a partner.
To plan together..
To build intimacy through communication.
To settle down…
When your relationship is not working inline with the purpose, then there is every need to ask ” Is this what we planned for???
In what situation should I ask this question?
~ When there is break in communication..
~ when you were told not to demand for explanation..
~ When your partner is not afraid to lose you..
~ When you’re seen as an option not a choice.
~ When cheating becomes his/ her way of life
~ When your calls, messages are overlooked..
Soluction:
∆ Know your stand ( Is either you’re in or out)
∆ If you can’t talk about it, there is no need to continue
∆ If your calls , SMS, chat, are overlooked, don’t push hard, just give it to time.
∆ Don’t wait in vacuum, have a reason to wait..
∆ Control your feelings and urge..
∆ If you’re confused, please sort for counselling.
Love Is A Beautiful Thing But Be Wise Not Everyone Have Come To Stay..
I really hope this help someone