- You are fixed on only one sex position and are not willing to explore
- You turn down your spouse when your spouse asks you out on dates
- During your free time, all you do is watch TV and stick to your phone. There is so much more to do in life
- You don’t take risks in life. You talk a big game and of big dreams but you do nothing to achieve them
- You let your spouse initiate everything; from conversations, family plans, love making, ways to improve, trips
- You have a tendency of turning down your spouse’s suggestions without trying or offering better suggestions
- You spend too much time in Church activities away from the family
- You spend too much time at work, making your spouse feel lonely
- You frequently come home tired and late, making no time for memories
- You dress up for the public but don’t dress up for your spouse
- You are ever complaining. Positive and appreciative words are so hard to come from you
- You over spiritualize everything failing to see life has other aspects
- You are a one topic kind of person. You only talk about one theme, you are not diverse
- You over think and complicate everything, making small things become so complex
- You are too serious with life. It is so hard to laugh and play with you
- You are selfish. Everything you want to do is all about you, you don’t consider your spouse likes, tastes and preferences
- You are stingy with money you have that you cannot allocate a small amount to spoil yourselves as a couple or a family
- All your life revolves around work and home, you don’t want to do other things outside the home environment
- When your spouse tries to flirt with you over the phone your response is cold
- You still have the same mindset and outlook that you had when you got into marriage years ago, you are not growing
- When your spouse goes out with you to events or activities, you look grumpy as if you are forced to be there
- You complain about your body and don’t do things to make yourself love your body
- You are a drama maker, not a peace maker
Come on, loosen up, change. You are draining your spouse who wants to enjoy marriage with you
