GodGift Ifunanya
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  1. You are fixed on only one sex position and are not willing to explore
  2. You turn down your spouse when your spouse asks you out on dates
  3. During your free time, all you do is watch TV and stick to your phone. There is so much more to do in life
  4. You don’t take risks in life. You talk a big game and of big dreams but you do nothing to achieve them
  5. You let your spouse initiate everything; from conversations, family plans, love making, ways to improve, trips
  6. You have a tendency of turning down your spouse’s suggestions without trying or offering better suggestions
  7. You spend too much time in Church activities away from the family
  8. You spend too much time at work, making your spouse feel lonely
  9. You frequently come home tired and late, making no time for memories
  10. You dress up for the public but don’t dress up for your spouse
  11. You are ever complaining. Positive and appreciative words are so hard to come from you
  12. You over spiritualize everything failing to see life has other aspects
  13. You are a one topic kind of person. You only talk about one theme, you are not diverse
  14. You over think and complicate everything, making small things become so complex
  15. You are too serious with life. It is so hard to laugh and play with you
  16. You are selfish. Everything you want to do is all about you, you don’t consider your spouse likes, tastes and preferences
  17. You are stingy with money you have that you cannot allocate a small amount to spoil yourselves as a couple or a family
  18. All your life revolves around work and home, you don’t want to do other things outside the home environment
  19. When your spouse tries to flirt with you over the phone your response is cold
  20. You still have the same mindset and outlook that you had when you got into marriage years ago, you are not growing
  21. When your spouse goes out with you to events or activities, you look grumpy as if you are forced to be there
  22. You complain about your body and don’t do things to make yourself love your body
  23. You are a drama maker, not a peace maker

Come on, loosen up, change. You are draining your spouse who wants to enjoy marriage with you

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